Welcome Party

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Cocktail Hour + Lawn Games

Take your seats for dinner!

First Dance and Dinner is Served

Speeches and Toasts

Live Band

Group Photo with Sparklers

Poutine Bar Opens

2:00 AM – Reception Ends (See You at the Afters)

Our Wedding

We worked together for years, and during that time, we built a strong friendship—one that became the foundation of something so much more. Looking back, there were plenty of little signs. (I mean, Rob would find excuses to stop by my desk even when he had no real reason to be there)  Our first date wasn’t a typical dinner or movie—it was an ATV ride to a waterfall, setting the tone for a relationship filled with adventure, travel, music, and shared experiences. But beyond all the fun, at the heart of it, we are best friends.  We love and admire so many things about each other—kindness, perseverance, and the way we show up for the people (and pets) we love.  Our little family, with Brutus and our kitties (RIP Fang), has made life even more special.  Life together has been filled with laughter, adventure, concerts, and countless unforgettable moments, and we know the best is yet to come.   We can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter with all of you!

Our Story

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Hey!
I'm Kayla—one of Jill's best friends, biggest cheerleaders, and proud maid of honor. We met working together quite a few years ago and quickly became each other’s go-to person for venting, crying, laughing, and surviving the daily grind.

When I'm not confirming Jillian's wedding choices (with the appropriate level of enthusiasm), you can usually find me watching a good murder documentary, chasing down a spontaneous cold beer, or never turning down a good puppy snuggle.

Being part of this day truly means a lot to me. I've had a front-row seat to Jillian and Rob building something really special—traveling the world, figuring out life together, and creating what I can only describe as a world-class love.

I can't wait to celebrate with you all. I'll be the one dabbing my eyes (definitely not crying), keeping the vibes fun, and making sure the rum and Cokes keep coming.

Cheers to an unforgettable celebration!



Kayla Steele 

I’m Ian, little brother of the groom. I’m kind of a mix between Dory from Finding Nemo and Pope Cody from Animal Kingdom—a whole lot of forgetful with just a touch of crazy. You’ll most likely find me somewhere swinging a hammer on a construction site.

I was Rob’s voice for the first 15 years of his life. I did all the talking while he did all the thinking. Honestly, it’s still a pretty similar situation today. If you don’t like a chatterbox, you’d best bring earplugs—fair warning.

Rob has been my best friend for all 28 years I’ve been here. From pulling me out of countless dirt bike accidents to providing tech support and everything in between, he’s always been there to clean up some form of destruction I’ve left in my wake. Rob is the whole package.

I’ve had a bird’s-eye view of watching Rob and Jill unfold the chapters of their lives together, and I’m excited to see what else they have in store for us in the future. From countless nights on the Mira and in the Bay, I’ve been lucky to share a lot of memories with Rob. Tonight, I want to take full advantage of this opportunity to celebrate the love and unity of two wonderful people.

Cheers, y’all!

Ian MacQueen

Hey howdy it's Katy here. I like artsy stuff, sandwiches, board games, camping and having a silly goose time. I have two beautiful baby girls and a fiance I actually met through Jill and Zack in 2015. Jill is one of my very best friends and also my coworker at 45Drives/Protocase!

I guess I'll start at the beginning... Jill crashed into my life in typical Jill fashion at a house party in 2014 just after I moved to Cape Breton. I didn't really know anyone there more than a few weeks and am naturally introverted so was keeping it lowkey. She came in, found the chair beside mine and first thing she said to me was that she wanted my eyebrows and that she was sorry she probably smelled like burgers. Turns out it was because she had just finished her shift at Tasty Treat, the ice cream joint my family owned for generations. That broke the ice and in the crazy night that followed, as well as the 11 plus years since, we have collected countless memories. Whether it be Ingonish camping trips every summer, slinging cones to slinging contracts, scream singing 2000s punk or country anthems in various living rooms or garages we found ourselves in, sharing Mcdoubles and Moscato over jackbox/board games or marathons of The Office. From crying over broken hearts to cry-laughing until our faces hurt riffing over the embarassing or hilarious circumstances we were in (Brutus' music video and "PASS IT THROUGH THE HATCH!" live rent free in my head)

We have had eachother from self destructive spirals in our early twenties to growing up and into our potential together, being there for milestones, getting engaged to our future husbands and thriving as a dream team in HR at Protocase/45Drives where our strengths work in a perfect complement to one another.

Jill is the most passionate, generous, free spirited, thoughtful person you could meet. She is a better friend than this world deserves. In the 5 years since Mr. slow-mo finger-guns (like in a rom-com you guys) walked into her life she has absolutely flourished. With him she can be her truest, happiest, and most authentic self. For that and many more reasons I not only love Jill but now Rob too with my whole heart. Together they are unstoppable, the true dream team. Witnessing their love story unfold has been a privilege as it's the kind of love everyone wants for their friend. It is an absolute honor to have been asked to stand with Jill for this incredible milestone next summer and I cannot wait to be with her as she marries her best friend and the love of her life. 

This wedding is going to be a momentous occasion and based on all of Jill's amazing ideas she's been sending us, it will be unlike any other - just like our Jilly. I can't wait to celebrate Jill and Rob and dance the night away!!!!

Katy Roach

Hi, I'm Brett

I've known Rob for more than a decade now, and proud to say he was my first friend on Cape Breton Island. I am from Dartmouth originally but am happy to call CB my forever home now. I love playing sports of all kinds, particularly hockey and golf. But nothing beats a good ol' rain day inside playing video games. But enough about me...

I'll never forget the first day Rob and I met, I was up interviewing at 45drives and remember thinking me and this guy are going to get along - he's one of the reasons I knew I wanted to be on the team.
Since then we have been through a lot together, some lows but way more highs - both in work and in life. I am honored to have worked beside the guy for the past 10 years, honored to call him one of my best friends and even more honored to be apart of his and Jill's big day.

I've gotten to know Jill pretty well over the last few years as well and as everyone who is reading this knows, Jill brings pure joy into everyone's lives and I value our friendship greatly.

I remember the day when I realized he and Jill had something special going on. It was a Friday, I couldn't figure out why he was so insistent on staying so late at work on a summer evening. He kept telling me he had something to finish, then I saw Jill walking up to the door and I knew. From that moment on these two have been inseparable and I have seen first hand the happiness she brings him. 

Cant wait to celebrate with everyone on the big day. Cheers to Rob and Jill.

Brett Kelly

Hey – I'm Amy!

I'm incredibly blessed to say that Jillian and I have been best friends since the day we were born. We've shared every milestone, every laugh, and even a few tears along the way. I couldn’t imagine her wedding day without standing by her side.

A little about me – I’m happiest when I’m surrounded by nature, whether it’s hiking through the trails, spending a sunny afternoon on the beach, or breathing in the salty ocean air. I love to sing and play guitar, crochet on a quiet evening, and spend lazy Sundays with my fiancé Jordan and our two beautiful children, Rylee and Ben, who are my greatest joy. I’m also incredibly proud of my work with Marine Atlantic – it’s more than just a job, it’s my passion!

Today, though, my heart is with my best friend. I’m so grateful to be part of this special moment in her life – to celebrate the love she’s found and to stand beside her as she begins this beautiful new chapter. Here’s to a lifetime of happiness for you, my soul sister since day one.



Amy Buckingham

Hey, I'm Josh!

Rob and I have been friends for nearly twenty years, from hanging on for dear life behind the “river rat” to late-night campfires during cottage season—what started as the occasional summer run-in with him and Ian has turned into one of my closest friendships. If you’d told us back then we’d be standing in each other’s weddings, we would’ve laughed, but looking back now it feels inevitable. These days we even work together at 45Drives, where I’ve watched the same guy who once, without a doubt tried to send his brother ashore on a set of water skis,  tackle every stage of life like a pro. Somewhere along the way through work and Rob I’ve had the please of getting to know Jilly!

Jill started popping by Rob’s office so often I thought we must be firing a lot of people—turns out, they were just falling in love. Over the years she’s become one of my go-to pals, whether it’s work decisions, life advice, or just keeping me grounded, and she has a way of always making you feel heard. Between road trips to PEI with my now wife, and Christmas dinner shows in da  Bay bi, I’ve had the best seat in the house watching these two build something incredible together, and I couldn’t be happier to celebrate them on their big day.

Josh Harris

Im Zach! I've known Jill for the more than a decade now, and we've had many an adventure over the years. From camping to donkey Kong country, crowded around a dining room table, or the occasional road trip (luckily with Jill not driving). 

A bit about myself. When I'm not occupied with multiple monitors, I try to take advantage of the sunny days by getting outside, wether it be a long trip to the patio or a short trip to the beach. I love trying to cook new recipes for family and friends. And I'll never turn down a cold beer lol. 

I was pumped when Jill asked me to be apart of her and Robs day, and im excited for them to move into the next chapter!

Zachary Linden

Hey, I'm Dylan - 

Rob and I go way back to the early days at CBU when we were working on our Electronics and Controls degrees. We met on our very first day of class and instantly hit it off. We became the lab and study partners everyone wanted to team up with because we knew our stuff, we stepped up as leaders in the class, and we always found a way to make studying and learning fun.

Our friendship grew even stronger when I got hired at 45Drives and started officially working alongside Rob. I’m known to push his buttons—and he pushes mine—but no matter what, we always find a way to get through challenges together and remain friends outside of work.

From Sydney and Glace Bay to California and New York, we’ve been through a lot together. We share countless core memories with friends and family, and we definitely have a few stories that will stay just between the two of us.

I can’t wait to celebrate your big day with you!

—Dylan

Dylan Tobin

Wedding Party

💍 Wedding FAQ 🛏️ Do I Have to Stay Both Nights? Not at all!You’re welcome to join us for the entire weekend, but you’re absolutely not required to stay both nights.If you’re only planning to join us for one night, we kindly ask that you book accommodations nearby so we can 🏡 Where Should I Stay? 🏨 At The Markland (Dingwall)The Markland is our wedding venue, and many of our guests will be staying right on-site!Guests staying at The Markland can enjoy the convenience of being steps away from all of the weekend celebrations, along with a complimentary continental breakfast Saturday and Sunday morning.The Markland also has an on-site restaurant for anyone looking for additional food or drinks throughout the weekend.🌲 Nearby AccommodationsIf you’re staying off-site, here are some great nearby options:Ingonish ~ 20 minutes awayKeltic Lodge at the HighlandsUpscale resort with a spa and incredible ocean views.Castle Rock Country InnComfortable, cozy, and scenic.Glenghorm Beach ResortBeachfront charm with cabins and lodge rooms.Dingwall ~ Very closeBlue Bayou ResortQuirky and fun dome glamping by the water.Hideaway Campground &amp; Oyster MarketRustic cottages and camping options.Burton’s Sunset Oasis MotelAffordable accommodations with beautiful views. 🚌 Getting AroundIf you’re staying off-site, don’t worry—we’re working with The Markland to help make transportation easy.We’re currently arranging a driver to offer rides between nearby accommodations and the venue on Saturday evening, so you can relax, enjoy the celebration, and take in the evening without having to worry about driving.We’ll share the full details, including pickup times and locations, as soon as everything is finalized! 🍽️ What Food Is Provided?We’ve got you covered for the weekend!If you’re staying in a cottage at The Markland, there’s no need to worry about packing a lot of extra food. We’ll be providing meals, snacks, and breakfast throughout the weekend so you can relax and enjoy your time with us. Here’s what’s included:🌊 Friday EveningJoin us for a welcome dinner and buffet as we kick off the weekend together. ☕ Saturday MorningBreakfast will be provided for guests staying at The Markland. 🧺 Saturday AfternoonAppetizers will be available during cocktail hour. 💍 Saturday EveningEnjoy a full wedding dinner during the reception featuring beef, chicken, and vegetarian options.Later in the evening, our poutine bar will open to keep the party going! ☕ Sunday MorningBreakfast will be provided before everyone heads home.Come ready to relax, celebrate, and enjoy the weekend—we’ll take care of the food! 🎒 What Should I Pack?Cape Breton weather can be beautiful, but coastal evenings can also bring a cool breeze, so we recommend packing a few extras to make the most of your weekend. Here are a few things you may want to bring:🌊 A light jacket, sweater, or layersEven summer evenings by the ocean can get chilly after sunset. 👟 Comfortable shoesThe ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors, so shoes that work well on grass and uneven ground are a great idea. 🩴 Casual weekend clothesBring something comfortable for relaxing, exploring, and enjoying the property between events. 🩱 SwimsuitIf you’re staying at The Markland or want to enjoy the coastal surroundings, you may want to take advantage of the water or nearby beaches. 🥾 Walking or hiking shoesThere are beautiful trails, beaches, and scenery nearby if you’d like to explore. 🧴 Sunscreen &amp; sunglassesThe ocean views are worth enjoying! 🔋 Phone charger / portable batteryYou’ll want to capture all the moments throughout the weekend. 👗 What Should I Wear?Our dress code is summer cocktail / coastal semi-formal.Think elevated summer style—flowy dresses, linen shirts, jumpsuits, dress pants, skirts, and comfortable shoes that you can enjoy the evening in.The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors, with beautiful ocean views and lawn spaces to explore, so we recommend choosing footwear that’s comfortable for grass and uneven ground.A light layer is also a good idea for the evening—Cape Breton’s coastal breeze can be cool after sunset! 👶 Are Kids Invited?We adore little ones, but this celebration is best suited for guests aged 13 and up.We hope you can treat yourself to a grown-up night out—you’ve earned it! ❓ Still Have Questions?If you have any questions leading up to the weekend, feel free to reach out.We can’t wait to celebrate with you, enjoy the ocean views, and spend an unforgettable weekend together!

Q + A

The Markland Coastal Beach Cottages802 Dingwall RoadDingwall, Nova ScotiaB0C 1G0, Canada📞 1-855-872-6048 | 📧 info@themarkland.com🌐 <a href="https://www.themarkland.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">themarkland.com</a> 🚗 Getting ThereFrom Sydney, NS (Approx. 2.5 hours):Take NS-125 W and merge onto Trans-Canada Hwy/NS-105 W.Continue on NS-105 W to Englishtown.Take the Englishtown Ferry (operates daily).Continue on Cabot Trail to Dingwall.Turn onto Dingwall Road; The Markland is located at 802 Dingwall Road. From Halifax, NS (Approx. 5.5 hours):Follow NS-102 N and Trans-Canada Hwy/NS-104 E towards Cape Breton Island.Merge onto NS-105 W towards Baddeck.Continue as above from Englishtown. Note: The Englishtown Ferry is a short, scenic crossing and operates regularly. Check Nova Scotia Ferry Services for schedules and any service notices.✈️ Nearest Airports JA Douglas McCurdy Sydney Airport (YQY) – Approximately 2.5 hours from The Markland. Halifax Stanfield International Airport (YHZ) – Approximately 5.5 hours from The Markland.Car rentals are available at both airports. It's recommended to reserve in advance, especially during peak travel seasons.

Travel

🌊 Our Favourite Spots: Ingonish &amp; the Cabot TrailIngonish and the Cabot Trail are some of our favourite places to relax, explore, and spend time together — including the spot where we said I do! If you’re visiting for the wedding, here’s a list of our must-see places, all just a short and scenic drive from The Markland: Jack Pine Hiking Trail (💍 Fun fact - this is the trail Rob proposed on!) A peaceful loop through coastal forest with ocean views — simple, quiet, and unforgettable.📍 ~12 min from The Markland The Groovy GoatA quirky boutique with handmade soaps, local crafts, and a chance to meet the goats. A must-stop!📍 ~25 min from The Markland Black Brook BeachSandy shores, freshwater falls, and space to stretch out — a stunning spot to relax or explore.📍 ~20 min from The Markland The Seagull RestaurantClassic East Coast comfort food with a view — one of our go-to spots for a great meal.📍 ~25 min from The Markland Ingonish BeachA unique beach where you can swim in both saltwater and freshwater, separated by a sandbar.📍 ~25 min from The Markland The Thirsty HikerA cozy pub atmosphere with local brews and live music — great for a relaxed night out. 📍 ~25 min from The MarklandWhite Point Hiking TrailA short trail that leads to dramatic ocean cliffs — one of our favourite coastal walks. 📍 ~10 min from The MarklandGolf at Highlands LinksWorld-class golfing in the heart of Cape Breton Highlands National Park, with unforgettable scenery.📍 ~25 min from The Markland The Markland’s Private BeachSteps from your cottage — peaceful, quiet, and perfect for coffee at sunrise or stargazing at night.📍 Right outside your door

Things to Do

Registry

Bacheloretty Weekend ItineraryDay 1 – Limo, Stops, Beaches &amp; Night Out9:00 AM – Limo picks us up at Jillian’s house9:00 AM–12:30 PM – Limo ride toward IngonishStops along the way as timing allows:BaddeckPiper &amp; Pewter – coastal gifts &amp; boutique shoppingThe Red Barn Gift Shop – souvenirs &amp; local findsBaddeck waterfront shops – quick stroll, photosOptional coffee or drink stopNyanzaGroovy Goat Farm &amp; Soap Company 🐐 – fun gifts &amp; quick browseBig Spruce Brewing 🍻 – craft beer, cider, spirits, relaxed outdoor stopIngonish Stops (before the cottage, as time allows)Bitsy Bean Café / Night Owl Coffee Co. ☕ – coffee &amp; pastriesSalty Rose’s &amp; the Periwinkle Café – coffee, baked goods, light snacksIngonish General Store – snacks, drinks, ice, last-minute essentialsDoucette’s Market &amp; Eatery – grab-and-go food &amp; snacks1:00 PM – Arrive at Christy’s cottage1:00–1:45 PM – Unload, snacks, drinks, changeBeach Time2:00 PM – Head out2:00–4:30 PM – Beach4:30–5:00 PM – Drive to Black Brook5:00–6:30 PM – Black Brook BeachWaterfall photos 📸Golden-hour hangs6:30–7:00 PM – Back to the cottage7:00–8:00 PM – Get readyEvening8:00 PM – Head to The Ardruaine8:30–11:30 PM – Late supper, drinks &amp; music 🎶11:30 PM–12:30 AM – Back at the cottageFace masksGirl talkCozy wind-down vibesDay 2 – Brunch &amp; Pool Party9:30–10:00 AM – Wake up, coffee, regroup ☕10:00–11:15 AM – Breakfast at Main Street11:15 AM–12:00 PM – Back to the cottage, change12:00 PM onward – Pool party beginsParty starts right awayGuys are welcome to join in the afternoon Themes &amp; What to Wear🤍🌊 Beach Day – “Last Toast on the Coast”Palette: Sand • Tan • Beige • Champagne • Soft sage • Muted blue • Shell pink(Bride in white 🤍)Wear:Swimsuits in soft beach tones • Flowy sundresses/linen • Breezy coverups • Straw hats/scarves • Simple gold jewelry • Sandals or barefootVibe: Sun-washed, boho beach, relaxed golden hour 🌊✨🕯️🍷 Ardruaine Night – “Pink Seas &amp; Wedding Dreams”Palette: Blush • Dusty rose • Shell pink • Soft mauve • Warm rose • Champagne(Bride in white or ivory 🤍)Wear:Soft pink dresses • Flowing fabrics • Low heels/boots/flats • Light layers • Gold or pearl jewelry • Relaxed hairVibe: Romantic pink glow, candlelight, cozy coastal pub ✨🧜‍♀️🤍🏖️ Pool Party – “Seashells &amp; Wedding Bells” (Mermaid Bridal)Palette: Seafoam • Shell pink • Soft lavender • Pearl • Champagne • Sand(Bride in white or pearl 🤍)Wear:Ocean-washed swimsuits • Subtle shimmer/texture • Mermaid-flowy coverups • Sarongs • Pearl/shell jewelry • Beachy hair • Barefoot or slidesVibe: Soft mermaid, honeymoon-at-sea, glowy bridal magic ✨🌊

Bachelorette Weekend

Final Details

<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QWIcz3ab358&amp;list=RDQWIcz3ab358&amp;start_radio=1" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Revival</a> Gather 'round this table, boysBring your shame, I'll lose my voiceScreaming at the gods about the bad we've doneMerle said, "Mama tried, but the prison still won"Your transgressions are mine as wellAnger grows in my bones if you could not tellBut I'll find comfort in companyLord, forgive us, my boys and meWe're havin' an all-night revivalSomeone call the women and someone steal the BibleFor the sake of my survivalBaptize me in a bottle of Beam, put Johnny on the vinylWell, the devil can scrap, but the Lord has wonAnd I'll talk to him on the rising sunHis son rose and mine did tooI was coming down, but now I'm talking to you'Cause we're havin' an all-night revivalSomeone call the women and someone steal the BibleFor the sake of my survivalBaptize me in a bottle of Beam, put Johnny on the vinyl'Cause we're havin' an all-night revivalSomeone call the women and someone steal the BibleFor the sake of my survivalBaptize me in a bottle of Beam, put Johnny on the vinylGather 'round this table, boysBring your shame, I'll lose my voiceScreaming at the gods about the bad we've doneMerle said, "Mama tried, but the prison still won"

Robert & Jillian

Robert & Jillian

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